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Battlefield Love or Love Battlefield

Battlefield Love or Love Battlefield

Battlefield + Love = ?????

My wife and I in NYWe take a moment from this political econimical debate and bitching to discuss family.

They say opposites attract, and in my life there is no statment more representative of my life with my lovely wife. I’ll tell you what it’s her opposition that makes me a better person. I hope I do the same for her, but sometimes I wonder if I help or just plain annoy. The PTSD doesn’t seem to help the situation of great disagreement.

But I divert:

Many don’t know this but when it comes to my wife and I, we are completely backwards. I come from Kansas, she comes from New York and our lifestyles and values growing up couldn’t be more night and day. But I’ll tell you what, I have learned alot from this woman and as pissy as I get I wouldn’t trade her in for anything.

What I have Learned

So here is where I am going with this, sometimes our opposition is in the same direction. We fight hard to show we are right only to realize we are saying the SAME THING. It’s those times after the fact and the heated debates, that we can laugh at ourselves and eachother.


Sometimes we are on the same page. This election year we are not. But I have grown because of this. Look I think Trump is friggin’ hilarious and yeah he’s got my vote. I like his blunt tweets and ability to get under the skin of all liberals everywhere. I appreciate what he’s done for the country in 4 years what others could not complete in their entire political career. Mostly I love the fact that he is NOT a politician. You bitch about politicians then argue that he’s not acting like a politician (he’s immature, he shouldn’t tweet like that, he’s a loose cannon) That’s what I like about the boy.

My wife, however, thinks he’s an asshole! She hates how cocky he is. She feels he should be much more professional than he is. And she feels a bit embarassed of his behaviour and how other countries view us because of this.


None of these are bullshit complaints, it comes down to the things I love about Mr. President, she hates about Mr. President. I can’t blame her though I give her enough outbursts and non filtered mouth she doesn’t need or want it from anyone else.

At the same time it is a disagreement that makes her worried that I am going to get pissed and fly off the handle. I am not and

Here is why…

The great thing about America is the fact that we can have differing opinions and still love eachother. The fact that I can say whatever the hell I want and it’s not what my wife would say because ya know what? She has her own set of values and viewpoints. Growing up differently, especially growing up differently, affects our perspective on outside events and people. 

My question I guess is this, if two married people can feel differently about a political issue such as who to vote for, and still live a great wonderful life filled with love for eachother and for our children, then why can’t others disagree without reverting to downright disgust and hatred for eachother?

Prior to Marriage

I was a way different person, you vote for the other guy you’re a dumbass and why do you even get to vote if you’re that retarded? I’m not the same guy. I’ve been to war 3 times, I’ve seen shit nobody wants to see, I’ve done things to make it safer here, and when I get back I realize it’s the ability to disagree that makes this country strong. 

I am ashamed of how the disagreements have been lately. Burning buildings and businesses down. Breaking shit that doesn’t belong to the vandals who break it. Americans work hard for what they have and some immature asshole goes and burns it down. why??? WTF is wrong with people that you can’t disagree and still be civil?

There is ALOT!

Alot alot of things that I disagree with. And some I remove my filter and tell you what an asshole and dumbass you really are. After that I’m done. I’m not going to take it into hatred, I’m not going to burn your house down because of it, and I’m not going to prepare for the apocolypse because you feel differently than me and the worlds gone to shit because of it.

Look around people

There are lots of things to love and enjoy. There are lots of hard times. Nobody out there is free from struggles and joys. In my masters degree I studied alot of the history of governments and countries and I have come to the conclusion that there are going to be leaders we love, and leaders who make us ashamed. There are people wo do GREAT things, and people who do HORRID things. You know… it’s the whole good vs. evil thing. There is a God, therefore there is good and there is evil. I have seen both believe me. 

Ultimately, how I handle things is this. I try to come back to… what is it that is in MY control?

  • I choose who I vote for.
  • I make decisions I feel best for my family.
  • I work to get my family food and shelter.

all of these are in my hands. Then there are the things I cannot control…

  • I cannot control who other people vote for (and I wouldn’t want to, that would completly ruin the great country we have by me pushing my stuff on others)
  • I cannot control the economy (frankly me spending 20 bucks on gas doesn’t affect the world commerce much)
  • I cannot control the weather
  • I cannot control the politicians
  • I cannot even control who the candidates ARE. I got two choices and vote for the least of the evils. I think that if we as Americans could have a write-in win we would but that’s not reality. Reality you vote for one of two sides, if you vote for a 3rd you’re really not voting at that point. 

It’s like if I ask my kids “do you want taco’s or burgers?” and they say “OHHH CHICKEN!” that’s not an option. I’m going to taco bell or mcdonalds because it’s close and we’re hungry I’m not driving to the chicken place. So I’ll pick for you. 


I’ll leave it with this,

  • Ups and downs are a thing in life. We will experience all of them.
  • Even if who we vote for today doesn’t win, there’s only so much that can get fucked up in 4 years and by then there’s other issues to pretend are important.
  • The sky is NOT falling there chicken little.

Finally, most importantly.

Evil will never win the war. Maybe a few battles here and there, but God wins in the end.  All I can do is be greatful for a wonderful life, a wonderful wife, awesome kids, food, shelter, water, and God will take care of all the other bullshit. I just need to focus on treating people okay, even if they are a dumbass. God told us, it’s not my job to judge, it’s not my job to condemn anyone to hell. Those are all in God’s lane, so why stress myself over any of it. Treat people the way you want to be treated and love God above all things. 

My wife and I may disagree, but we dissagree with the little shit in life that’s not in our control anyways. 😉 I do love my life!

Quote from my daddy: The word is round, we will get there eventually.

Maryland Law Lets discuss this

Maryland Law Lets discuss this

Maryland Law
Race color descrimination

Maryland law discussion

Ok so today one of the stories in Maryland was passing a law that bans discrimation for employment based on the applicants hair texture and style. Simple enough, there’s a global pandemic going on… you know, the whole COVID-19 shit. Economy is going to hell and alot of good people out of work because, well you know… COVID-19 shit. Alot of people suffering and not able to get by day-to-day because you know… COVID-19 shit.


I pointed out that with all the things going on perhaps this is a retarded law for law makers to be working on at the moment. I use words like “retarded” and “waste of time” and was met with alot of great discussion points.

White Priviledge

First off I was called an idiot that wouldn’t understand because of the priviledge I enjoy being white. Make no mistake people, white priviledge is a myth. I would be willing to discus perhaps if you are the son/daughter of a famous singer/actor/football/baseball/soccer etc… then you are born into a very priviledged lifestyle and get everything handed to you. That’s been the story since time began. People with alot of money and fame get things because of who they are.

I, however, have never been offered anything for my whiteness. Not once. You would think that if there was a priviledge for being white I would have come across it once in my 39 years of life. NOPE! haven’t. I’ve worked hard for everything I have in life and continue to work hard to not lose what I have. I’m blessed and that’s from God not from being white.

I don’t understand

The next arguments is that I’m white and don’t know how it is to not be hired for a job because of the way my hair naturally grows. You are correct, I have never experienced that nor will I, becasue I make certain I dress for the job including hairstyle. I know things I can get away with and things I cannot get away with.

The argument following was that afro’s or dreads kept someone from a job and it’s prevelant in todays society and black women spend fortunes on their hair just to maintain so they can keep a job. Guess what? White women been spending fortunes on their hair for centuries and whether a woman has a job or not I gaurantee she’s going to want to look pretty. It’s part of life, that’s the way it is. Next thing  you know women with this argument will want their jobs to compensate them for hair maintenance in addition to hourly/salary wages. Which again, is retarded.

More arguments…

This law doesn’t affect or concern me so I can’t have an opinion I should mind my own business and focus on shit that does matter and affect me.

FALSE! I am a citizen here and the politicians work for me too. Spending time and money on shit that doesn’t matter IS in fact, a concern for me as a voter and a taxpayer. I can have opinions about anything and everything in fact because… well you know… FREEDOM! Yup that’s right! Nothing in the books says that if a law doesn’t concern a citizen then that citizen should not concern themselves with it.  If government officials are wasting my money then I have every right to say “stop it, that’s retarded!”

So before you go crazy…

Let me say this. NO, I do not think racial discrimination belongs anywhere. The waste of time is the fact that we have discrimination laws that include hair in the Federal Laws. The fact that the law makers here wasted time and money to make a new law, really just shows me that they are trying to appeal to certain group of people for votes.  I can see them now saying…

“Look, see, we just make a law that already exists and they think we’re doing it for them, then they vote for us!” Does it have to be a whole new law? “Hell no, too much work, lets just restate shit that’s already on the books, noone will look it up!”

If you don’t believe me, then go here and read for yourself. It’s not hard to find. It’s in like the first paragraph. You don’t even have to read much to find it.


So here’s my outlying argument, if it’s already illegal to discriminate based on being black, whether it’s skin color, way of talking, hair, dress, style, creed, religious belief of certain colors, whatever… if it’s already illegal why are we not enforcing it?

I get all kinds of people telling me how their hair can keep them from  a job because they know it’s black people’s hair and that this law is needed because it happens. But this is all bullshit. The law ALREADY exists. The law is NOT being enforced obviously if this is still happening. You aren’t fixing the problem. It’s not going to benefit ANYONE to have this new law.

The law makers in Maryland have you all fooled that they are helping you if you think this is a good law. Why don’t they make sure that the laws are being enforced? How is adding one more to the book of laws helping if you can’t already protect people from this? It’s a waste of time and money because it addresses NOTHING, it fixes NOTHING, it helps NOONE. It’s like taking cold medicine, it sure as hell doesn’t cure the common cold, but god damn my cough is gone for 4 hours.

I’ll never claim to be the brightest crayon in th box, but c’mon people rather than just yelling about making new laws why don’t you spend more time yelling that people broke the law and aren’t being held accountable or responsible? I’ll tell you what, you give the average American the right to throatpunch someone for breaking any discrimination law, that law would be working 10 times better. Knowing that if you tell someone no, because they are black or because their hair is black people hair, you’ll have a line of mother fuckers waiting to throat punch that dude/dudette.

Just sayin…

Generation Resistance

Generation Resistance

Generation Resistance, I’m willing to bet you’ve never heard of these  assholes before. Neither have I. The news headline I will talk about today discusses this “person”. So here… we…. go……

The Break Down:

Ok so we have a couple things to break down here.

  1. Generation Resistance
  2. Abolish Colonial System
  3. Day of Rage

Generation Resistance,


Protesters stand over a toppled statue of President Theodore Roosevelt during an Indigenous Peoples Day of Rage protest on October 11, 2020 in Portland, Oregon. (Photo by Nathan Howard/Getty Images)

I’m assuming is who they refer to as “Promoter of ‘Day of Rage'” is utimately a twitter account. It may be one person, it may be a group of people. I’m judging by the picture of the ‘day of rage’ that it’s a handful of folks. They likely have a truck because I doubt these 4 people pulled down a statue with their own might. 

This leaves me to believe that Generation Resistance is a very small very meaningless group of folks who don’t really matter in life. I’m not certain why they made headlines if anyone else toppled a statue it would be more of “vandals in portland destroy statue.” There is no rightious cause here. The statue was Theodore Roosevelt. Not one of the colonials, but the president of the united states.

Which brings me to my second point…

Abolish Colonial System:

First off, this is a made up term that someone just now thought of. If you try to find the definition of “Colonial System” you cannot because it doesn’t exist. Colonial IS a type of System, but this is NOT the system the United States of America currently use. This was the system used back in “the day”  (which was a Thursday by the way) when citizens of the British Empire wanted to break free from the tyrany of the King who lived an ocean away. 

Therefore, there is no “colonial system” to abolish currently, which is likely why they just pulled down any statue they could pull their truck up to that the tow chain could reach. None of this makes any sense what-so-ever. 

It feels like, to me, somone wanted to MAKE news? So far we’ve got a twitter account noone has ever heard of “Generation Resistance” and their “cause” is to “abolish colonial system” which is imaginary. How much more imaginative can this story get? I’m glad you asked…

The Day of Rage:

More like “the day of temper tantrum.” On this the Eve of the Day of Columbus, 2020 (yes the Sunday before the day they are protesting, who wants to work on Columbus day? geese!) A handful of people (I’m guessing it started with a drunk dude saying… hey I got an idea….) go out and pull down a couple of statues and post a nonsensical phrase on twitter, and some jackass with google finds this phrase and makes it the story of the day because nobody else gives a shit. 

In other terms, the country as a whole is NOT outraged about Columbus Day. Listen, some of you bitches can’t let go of the bully who pushed you around in kindergarden now you gotta pull up shit from 200 years ago to bitch about? It’s over! Guess what? Columbus is DEAD! he’s gone folks. So are all the indians that he encountered and all the other friends he had. 

I really don’t think old Chris Columbus is getting any paycheck for having a day to celebrate the REASON ALL OF US ARE HERE. It started THEN. If you don’t want to be here then leave. Seriously, if you feel that bad over living in the United States of America, then just get on the next boat and go elsewhere. See how they deal with you when you pull down a statue. 

Many places, you pull down a statue like that, jail or death. But not here, no sir, I fought 10 years for you to be able to pull down a statue and have it be presented as a “noble cause”.  If I were to go destroy all memories and rememberances of Roe v. Wade I would be demonized and sent to hell, my family would be terrorized and life would suck big time.  But not for these douchebags. When the hell did we decide as a country that acting like a childish highschooler was acceptible behaviour?

In Conclusion:

These handful of pansies need to take their imaginary term and go suck their thumbs in a corner like the babies they are. Your day of temper tantrum needs to be spanked the hell out of you. Your parents need to be prosecuted to the laws greatest extent for raising such pieces of trash that now they are wrecking whatever the hell they want.



Amy Coney Barrett vs. News Outlet

Amy Coney Barrett vs. News Outlet

First post of the future of CookieCrumb. I’m going to attempt to take this where my father wanted it to go, but keep in mind. My father was a very articulate man who was really good at communication and arguing his point. 

I, on the other hand, curse alot and call people bad na

mes because they are scum of the earth and do not deserve better. My father was much better at this than me.

Amy Coney Barrett vs. News Outlets

Fox 5 DC

What do I mean by this? Well first off lets start with this completely non-bias 

news outlet’s headline for the story… 

Now this is fox news, the news outlet that I throw up the least. This headline states that “Senate Democrats branded Supreme Court nominee Amy Coney Barrett a threat to the Affordable Care Act Monday at the start of a fast-tracked hearing that Republicans are confident will end with Barrett’s confirmation to replace the late Justice Ruth Bater Ginsburg before Election Day”

Let’s break this appart:

“Democrats branded her a threat to the affordable care act” (paraphrasing) Just simply including that part in there is subjective. It’s like introducing an article by stating “all these other folk hate this bitch but…”  even before viewing this it feels like she should not be there. But then again, on the republican side I’m like “well hell ya!” It’s the equivalent to starting the article by “Rightious saviour Amy Coney Barrett is here to fix all that is wrong with the laws and get rid of the hated “affordable care act” for first on her agenda. 

None of this is an accurate dipiction of what’s going on right now!

In the military:

We have this position called FNG (Fucking New Guy), and everyone from the Army knows the FNG has a probationary period of time in which to prove himself. Yeah I’ve heard what you USED to do, now put your money where your mouth is FNG! or Hey, FNG, stay in your cave until we’re ready to let other teams even realize you’re here, we don’t want to be associated if you’re a shitbag! 

The point?

My point is the headline alone is meant to tear us appart. Over ONE topic that may or may not even be an issue for the lady. Once she gets to the Surpreme Court she cannot just say “boom, all this shit is disappeared” nope there’s a whole bunch of other judges and they all get a vote on that matter. So cool your socks boys and girls there’s a process to this and it’s going to take time. The world was not created in one day, this Supreme Court nominee isn’t going to tear it appart in one day. Also, on the other side of that argument she’s not going to rebuild it in a day either.

Keeping shit in perspective:

reactionsSo here’s the poll I’m looking at. You see the thumbs up, happy faces, hearts, mad faces, sad faces. there’s a total of 165, and an overwhelming majority 101 who thumbs up and love this. So if you want to know where “public opinion” is, look at the reactions not the comments or the headline. 101 out of 165 love this is happening. 

All you folks out there trolling the comments section need to sit’n’spin for awhile and calm TF down. All excited that this is going to change “EVERYTHING” need to calm TF down. There’s so many checks and balances in our system that nothing is going to change overnight. Everyone who said if Trump wins they are leaving the country… they never left. They are still here unfortunately. Even Canada rejected a few of them. I don’t blame Canada at all. They don’t need the added drama of retards.